“The church has to change that paradigm, that way of thinking that survivors are enemies of the church and want to destroy the church,” said Juan Carlos Cruz. “It’s quite the opposite. There’s a lot of people that have been destroyed by the church and others that have been wronged in the worst way by the church and yet they still want to move forward and call themselves Catholics.”
https://www.americamagazine.org/faith/2018/11/30/juan-carlos-cruz-survivor-who-changed-popes-mind-sex-abuse
https://www.americamagazine.org/faith/2018/11/30/juan-carlos-cruz-survivor-who-changed-popes-mind-sex-abuse